Be a human being. Life in the world, it is necessary to do a beneficial person to society, even if there is no such ambition and ability, also don't do harm to society. Doing a good and pleasant deed is not enough to form virtue, but persisting in doing good deeds, over time, will form good character; To do one remorseful evil is not enough to corrupt character, but to do it often makes a villain. The truth of life is very simple, and in your side, to see you do or not to do. Shock the sky, eliminate evil, go through fire and water, just do it; Killing others, coddling others, glorifying the ugly is not to be done. No matter how great a person's achievements, as long as there is any lack of moral cultivation, it is a pity. What things can be replaced by people, only a person who instead of ah?

Wear your hat properly and dress with buttons; Socks and shoes should be worn smoothly, and LACES should be tied tightly to make your whole body look neat. Wear clothes to pay attention to neat, don't pay attention to expensive gorgeous clothes. Dress should consider their own status and occasion, but also to measure the family's economic situation. After returning home, take off the hat and clothes should be placed in a fixed position, do not throw around to avoid wrinkling dirty.

Diet daily diet is not picky partial food, enough is enough, not too much. Don't worry about dressing or eating better than others. There's no need to worry about inferiority. People respected him for his virtue, his ability, not his appearance.

Walk with deliberate steps and stand with good posture. Don't step on the threshold when entering the door, don't lean against the wall when standing, and don't stretch your legs when sitting. The action of lifting the curtain should be gentle and slow, and try not to make a sound. Keep a wide distance from the corners of objects when you turn. Be as careful with empty utensils as with full ones. Go into an empty room, don't just barge in. If someone in the room asks you who you are, say your name and ask permission to borrow something from someone else. When you run out of items borrowed from others, return them immediately; Others borrow from you, if you have, be generous. Do not hurry and panic, do not be afraid of difficulties in the things that should be done, and do not deal with things carelessly. A bad place for quarreling and fighting, a place of trouble, resolutely do not approach. Never question the wicked, the grotesque, the absurd.

Talk, don't make unrealistic rhetoric. Pay attention to credit, keep promises. Talk too much rather than too little, and cut out vitriol, indecency, and the vulgarity of the street scoundrel. Before knowing the truth, do not easily express opinions, do not spread freely. Do not easily agree to unreasonable things, will put yourself in a dilemma. Speak clearly and slowly. When you encounter someone who makes mischief, judge with wisdom and do not intervene. If you have nothing to do with it, you do not need to do anything.

Study study to tidy up clean, walls to keep clean, ink, paper, inkstone and other stationery should be placed neatly, write out the words crooked, it means you impetuous restless, the heart can not settle down. Books and textbooks should be sorted, arranged neatly, placed in fixed positions and returned to their original places after reading. If you are in a hurry, you should also put your books away before leaving. Bad books and periodicals that are harmful to physical and mental health should be abandoned so as not to pollute your body and mind, deceive your wisdom and make your mind unhealthy. When you encounter difficulties or setbacks, don't give up on yourself. You should study hard and strive upward. Although the realm of sages is high, it can be achieved step by step. The study of knowledge, to be specific, to be specialized in depth. Just start reading a book, don't envy, want to read other books. After years of hard work, the original barrier and confusion are solved naturally. In school, in the mind of doubt, should always take notes, whenever the opportunity, to consult good friends, be sure to understand its true meaning. Blindly dead reading, can not physical force, even if some knowledge, but also to increase their own flashy and unreal habits, so what is the use of reading?

All people are born of heaven and earth and should love each other. When your heart is one with the world and all living beings, you will not feel lonely. To love people with love, speak honorific and love language, with their own good state and mood can infect others. All human beings are living things with blood and spirit. They all have spiritual perception and have their own strengths and weaknesses. They appreciate and learn from others' talents without envy or slander. Be willing to accept criticism for your lack of. Meet the shortcomings of others, to pity his troubles; Know and can tolerate foolishness, Bo and can allow shallow, essence and can allow miscellaneous, strict but not evil, by example, by reason, others will be convinced.

The same people, good and evil, good and bad, the mental level is mixed, there are many lay people, few humane. Do not close to the gentleman, there will be endless harm. When we associate with virtuous people, our virtue improves day by day, and our faults decrease. Are busy people, don't bother him with things; Don't disturb someone with words when they are in a bad mood or feeling insecure. Be a favor to always think of return, others have sorry for their own things, should be lenient, resentful things do not stay too long; As for others to our kindness, to be grateful in mind, often think of return. Have the ability to serve the public, don't be selfish. Property acquisition and give, would rather give others, take some less.

Remonstrance, between friends should use benevolence and morality to advise each other, if not to persuade others, their own and each other's character will be missing. Friends have shortcomings, don't expose, privacy should avoid publicity. You can advise, only good words to advise, advise should also pay attention to the method. Don't be too blunt, speak too deep, nagging, don't say nothing. Even the accusations between father and son and brothers are unbearable, let alone others? Be careful in reproof: not in company, not in shame, not in regret, not at night, not at dinner, not in celebration, not in sorrow, not in sickness. Some people should ChuTui but have to continue, should good at driving. Some things should be changed but have to follow, be good at fixing. This can not only preserve the friendship of friends, but also cultivate their temperament.

Filial piety: Filial piety is sensible, is a comprehensive check and balance, rather than to obey. Filial piety is to pay attention to their own character cultivation, even if it is a small matter, can not do something against the moral, let the parents shame, have filial piety dare not mess. I have you in my heart, you have me in your heart, parents to love, teach children the ability to survive, the ability to love. Children should have parents in their hearts. Serve their parents as children, taking care of their bodies but understanding their hearts. Let parents happy mood, increase appetite, blood gas can pass, unhappy things do not bother parents. Even if your parents are guilty, find a way to make them happy.

In everyday life. Get up in the morning, should first visit their parents, say hello to their parents; Help your parents sleep at night. When you go out, you must tell your parents where to go, and when you come home, you must also tell your parents face to face to make them feel at ease. Serving parents should be considerate, warm bed for parents when cold in winter, make bed for parents before going to bed in summer cool fan. When their parents are sick, their children should take care of them by tasting medicine and serving them day and night without leaving their beds. What parents like, do children should try to prepare all; Parents hate things, be careful to remove carefully. To take care of their own body, daily life and work, maintain regular, do not make it hurt, let parents worry. When parents don't like us, we as filial piety, but also to reflect on their own, understand the parents, try to change and do better, such filial piety is the most valuable. Parents should be advised to correct their faults. The manner of persuasion should be sincere, the voice should be soft, and the countenance should be pleasant. If your parents don't listen to advice, find the right time to continue. If our parents still do not accept it, we will cry and beg them to change, even if beaten without regret. Brother to love, younger brother to respect, a happy family, parents happy heart. The less money brothers haggle over, the less resentment. When words are tolerant, conflict and resentment disappear. When your parents are dead, always remember the kindness of their upbringing. During the mourning period, he lived in a simple place and abstained from alcohol and meat. Parents' funeral should be handled in accordance with etiquette, not sloppy, worship should be sincere. Treat the deceased parents with the same respect as when they were alive.

Uncles and other elders, like to treat their father as respectful, to treat the same kind of brother, like to treat their own brother, can not call the name of the elder. In front of elders, do not show off their talent. On the way to meet elders, to quickly go forward to salute say hello, if the elders did not talk to us, respectfully stand back. Whether riding or riding, you should dismount or get off the horse to greet your elders. Elders stand, the younger generation should stand with, can not sit down first. If the elder is seated, we can sit down only when we are allowed to. Talk to your elders in a soft, moderate voice. Something to the elders, should be quick forward, until the retreat, to slowly exit. Elders ask, should focus on listening, eyes can not look around. In life, eating, sitting, lying, walking, should be modest and comity, orderly. The old come first, the younger come second. Elders have something to call people, to summon for the elders, if the person is not in, they should take the initiative to help.